Published by May 19th, 2009

Hi to all those of you who have been around the block with us! Thank you for all the love and support! Know that we are really happy these days, enjoying the tender moments of family and friends, and the warmth of a midwest spring. There is nothing like the lengthening of days, the gentle showers, and humid air on skin that was begging to shed itself of heavy coats, and sweaters. We are in what can be considered our nirvana.
Life has been generally good to us. We love our children’s school, and have been very active in parent groups which advocate for garden to table lunches, Rod was asked to join the school board, and we are making strong family relationships with other families. We feel blessed, and inspired!
We are working, not great jobs, but when we find ourselves complaining, it is too easy to remind ourselves what is on the other side of boring, not-soul-fulfilling jobs. We are not struggling to meet out basic needs like many families are now. We have what we need, maybe not beyond, but enough. And our richness is always measured far outside the confines of money.
Rod is attending a class on Wednesdays to help him get away from his “bad” life. The book is an awful method of indoctrination. It is full of degrading language, it develops a psyche of a person and aims to convince each person how there life was full of pain and anger, and how the bad things they did were because they felt bad about themselves, and how to admit their false realities, and in doing so become accountable. Well, as I read it, I may have seen what the end goal was. Unfortunately, for most, I think it leaves out the whole world of racism, classism, and sexism. It does not at all account for the world we live in. It does not use the powerful world of popular education that could engage these folks to make social change. No, it wants people to say they are bad, over and over again, and feel wrong and ashamed, so they do not repeat the same actions. Well, the world they have re-entered did not change.
Rod is expected to take this class until he has passed each level of self-loathing. I read what he must tell them, and see the diagrams he must show about his mistakes, and I feel sorry for him. But, he says that he is making the most of it. He says that it is difficult to have to say exactly what they want to hear, if he suggests a more complex view, they flunk him for the class.
The most shocking news post release for Rod was when he asked his probation officer for a meeting to talk about modifying his conditions of release in favor of adding some better conditions that were suggested by Judge Miller in San Diego, and when he went in for a meeting, he was met with a huge list of conditions that Michigan wants to make him adhere to! They are outrageous, to say the least. Keep in mind, Rod has not violated ANY of his current conditions. In fact, he has been working since his release, is attending church, participating in his children’s school and board meetings, and has been an excellent father and partner!
Here are the new conditions that Rod is fighting to keep from being put on his probation sentence:
1. The defendant shall not personally, or through third parties, access, own, use, or possess any type or form of computers, computer-related devices, or other forms of wireless communication without the advanced written approval of the probation officer. Any approved computer shall be subject to computer monitoring or search.
(You can imagine how I feel about that, since that violates my rights as well…)
2.The defendant shall consent to computer monitoring as directed by the probabtion office and shall cooperate with the computer monitoring participant agreement. THE DEFENDANT SHALL PAY FOR THE COSTS AS DIRECTED BY THE PROBATION OFFICER. (This is unrealistic for us, just getting by. This can be costly.)
3. The defendant shall provide a list of all computers located, or stored in his residence, and/or place of employment.
4.The defendants travel shall be restricted to Kent, Allegan, and Ottawa county in the Western Distric of Michigan.
5. The defendant shall be placed on electronic monitoring, which may include the use of GPS technology for a period of 6 months (all summer he will wear a collar on his ankle, at the beach, at the school, at the park…. this identifies him as a person of concern, and is harmful to building healthy relationships in the community)
The defendant shall pay for all costs associated with this GPS monitoring. (once again, costly.)
6. During this time, the defendant shall remain at HOME unless at place of employment, unless otherwise approved by the probation officer.(house arrest) The defendant shall maintain a telephone line at his house and pay for all costs. ( We just got rid of the line we had to have while he was in the half-way house! It cost over $100 to install, and $40/month for the line because it had to be on a modem through AT&T…. more costs we cannot afford!)
7. The defendant shall not personnally, or through third parties maintain access to a post office box without prior consent of the probation officer.
8. The defendant will provide the probation officer with a list of all addresses where mail is recieved of sent from.(hm…….)
9. The defendant’s employment and residence must be pre-approved by the probation officer.
10. The defendant shall surrender any passport and shall not apply for one during the time frame.
11. The defendant shall not possess or be the primary user of a cell phone. If given permission to use one, the defendant must give the probation officer the number.
So, there you have it. That is our current battle with the US government, which promised Rod would be left alone after taking a plea bargain. Yet, we are not surprised. It would be silly to assume this was going to be so easy.
We will keep you posted on goings on. We are also trying to raise funds to get Mr. Singleton, from San Diego to appear in court along with local council. We feel that we must fight this, for Rod has not done anything to provoke it. These new conditions will be detrimental for our family, financially, socially, and at all for moving forward with our lives.
Thank you for your continued support and love!
If you can make a donation to cover the costs of Mr. Singleton’s flight, that would greatly help us out. We believe that fighting this is important down to our core values. Rod deserves to be granted the right to live with the ability to have a good job, be involved with his kids, and their education, to become a part of this community, and to not have unwarranted costs and negative social stigma added to his burden.
The Paypal account is still active, or send it to the PO Box listed on the website! Thanks, Chrysta



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